Helping Couples in Crisis restore a safe and loving connection
Have you lost the “in-love” feelings?
Has betrayal or infidelity threatened the trust you once had?
Are you trying to save your marriage but nothing seems to work?
You don’t need to struggle alone.
All couples experience conflict. Few, however, have learned to effectively work through conflict while honoring one another’s differences. I help couples make sense of the walking-on-eggshell feelings they experience when fights are unresolved and help them to restore a safe and loving bond.
As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I help couples work through conflict in a way that enables each of them to put their defensive guard down and to listen to the real message behind their destructive fights. Often the cycle is represented with one person criticizing and blaming while their partner defends, withdraws and shuts down. This leaves both of them feeling misunderstood, uncared for and alone.
Together we can create a secure and loving bond to restore intimacy and passion in your relationship.
Licensed since 1985, I’ve been married 30+ years and raised five children, including twins. Now an empty nester myself, I understand the phases that couples go through in a long term relationship.
I specialize in:
Couples in Crisis
PTSD, Abuse, Neglect, Trauma Treatment
If you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship or personally, I can help. I work with couples and individuals at my office in downtown San Diego. To make an appointment or speak with me, please call my confidential voice mail at 858.756.8171 or email me.