Couples Therapy in San Diego: More Love, Less Conflict
At Gerard Counseling, I specialize in Couples Therapy in San Diego to help partners heal, grow, and reconnect. With compassionate guidance and proven therapeutic approaches, I assist couples in restoring trust, enhancing communication, and rediscovering joy in their relationships. Let’s collaborate to build a stronger, more loving future together.
After 20+ years of marriage, it’s natural for relationships to evolve. The spark you once felt may have dimmed, or the empty nest may leave you wondering, “What’s next for us?” If you’re feeling disconnected, stuck, or unsure about the future of your relationship, you’re not alone.
As a couples therapist in San Diego, I specialize in helping couples in their 40s, 50s, and 60s navigate this unique stage of life. Whether you’re facing the challenges of empty nesting, high conflict, or simply feeling like roommates, I’ll help you breathe new life into your marriage and rediscover the joy of being together.
Using evidence-based approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method techniques, and mindfulness-based practices, I’ll help you and your partner:
- Improve communication and resolve conflicts constructively.
- Rebuild trust and emotional intimacy.
- Navigate life transitions, such as parenting, career changes, or loss.
- Strengthen your connection and create a more fulfilling relationship.
If you’re ready to take the first step toward a healthier, happier relationship, I’m here to help. Contact me today to schedule a free consultation for couples therapy in San Diego.

“Through Couples Therapy in San Diego, we can restore trust in your relationship, understand how the loving connection was lost, express unshared inner feelings, and gain a better understanding of your partnership.”
My Approach

Strength-Based Focus
I believe every relationship has strengths to build on. Together, we’ll identify what’s already working and use it as a foundation for growth.

Reigniting the Spark
Through guided conversations and practical tools, I’ll help you reconnect emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

Navigating Transitions
Whether you’re adjusting to life as empty nesters or redefining your roles, I’ll help you create a shared vision for the future.

High Conflict Resolution
For couples in high-conflict situations, I provide a safe space to address underlying issues and rebuild trust.

Meet Your Therapist
Carolyn Gerard, MFT
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist since 1985, with over 30 years of marriage and experience raising five children, I understand the various phases couples experience in long-term relationships. My personal and professional journey equips me to guide you through Couples Therapy in San Diego effectively.
“The best experience of working through conflict has been utilizing the skills I’ve learned from my education and training within my 40-year marriage and raising our five (now adult) children. It’s a humbling experience that challenges one to grow in truth and love.”
How Therapy Works
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. My goal is to make the process as simple and comfortable as possible. Here’s what you can expect.

Schedule an Appointment
The first step is easy—just click the “Book an Appointment” button and choose a time that works for you. If you’re unsure whether therapy is right for you, feel free to reach out with any questions before scheduling.

Your First Session
Your first session is a chance for us to get to know each other. We’ll talk about your concerns, relationship dynamics, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is a safe, judgment-free space to share what’s on your mind.

Ongoing Support & Growth
Therapy is a journey, and each session builds on the last. We’ll work together to improve communication, rebuild trust, and develop tools to strengthen your relationship. Whether you’re navigating challenges or simply want a deeper connection, I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Ready to take the first step?
Book your appointment today and start your journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.

“When faced with a marital crisis, Carolyn helped us hear the real message behind the anger and to share our real feelings with each other.”
– M.B & R.B.
Don’t wait to get help!
Whether you’re navigating personal challenges or looking to strengthen your relationship, therapy provides a safe space for growth and healing. Book an appointment today and take the first step toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.